This Is How We Get Death Wrong
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Current Location: Milwaukee, WI
Reading: Catastrophe by Christopher Ferguson
Listening: What Do I Know by Deep Sea Diver
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I recently updated the operating systems on my iPhone and Macbook Pro, as usual waiting a while because the folks behind some of the software I use drag their heels on getting confirmed-compatible versions of their offerings out the door. I also try to the avoid the worst of the new-release bugs that hide in every OS upgrade across every possible computing platform, these days.
The new versions of both OSes are pretty terrible. I’m sure this feeling isn’t universal, but the general consensus seems to be that Apple stumbled on this, producing strangely ugly, slow, disarrayed base-layers for their two most important platforms.
Some of the apps I use every day are now borderline unusable, lagging and sputtering under the weight of all the unnecessary decorations and doodads that have been crammed into this “upgrade.” My outdated phone, after years of amiably puttering along like a fresh device, is suddenly acting its age, creaking and sighing every time I ask it to perform even the simple of tasks.
If you couldn’t tell, I’m not happy with all this. And the incessant insistence that I upgrade—please upgrade, don’t you want to upgrade, you must upgrade now—delivered by popups and other dark pattern elements splashed across my screens, only add insult to injury.
They forced this on me, and I’m irritated about it.
That said, in these sorts of moments I try to remind myself that new stuff will almost always be irritating or terrifying at first, at least to some portion of the intended audience. And the older we get, the more likely we are to be thus disarrayed by novelty, because we become more set in our ways, more prone to exploit rather than explore, and more latently skeptical of the unfamiliar (on average, at least).
I also try to remind myself that truly wonderful next-step evolutions seldom arrive fully baked and perfectly conceived. In most cases they’re partway there; an interesting vision bundled up in an annoying, detrimental, maybe even confoundingly bad wrapper. It can take a while for the good to be identified and amplified, and the bad whittled away.
This isn’t just true of tech giants and their products. Every good thing I’ve ever made, all the incredibly valuable, fulfilling, healthful next-steps I’ve ever taken, have been processes, not one-shot pivots. And almost always we have to break things in order to make things: we can patch and suture the old for a long while, iterating on what works. But at some point that awkward collage of ideas will need to be reassessed and, ideally, reborn as something new; a fresh canvas to tweak, refine, and over the course of years revise into its own patchwork masterpiece (which will then be destroyed and replaced).
This isn’t always a fun thought, but it’s this or stagnation.
That’s what I tell myself, anyway, as another app fails to load and another digital tool I rely upon to do my job stutters and shuts itself down, the machines running them collapsing under the weight of un-asked-for tacky UI elements and yet another, buggy software update.
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After a couple of 70-ish degree (F) days, during which everyone was outside, in shorts, getting sunburned, the state of Wisconsin just basically shut down in the face of an historic blizzard. The weather whiplash is real up here, folks.
In other news, I’m in the process of revising my Truly Simple Tools app portfolio (lots of updates already released) and outlining/planning some new apps I’ve been thinking about for a while, but haven’t had the time to hunker down and tackle.
I’m also about a fifth of the way through a new, major (4th) draft of Methuselahs, which is just such a fun story and I can’t wait to share it with beta readers after this (and then a comparably quick spelling/grammar/etc) draft.
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We all play a part, or I suppose, more accurately, we have the opportunity to play a part. Some take that opportunity, some don’t. This became especially apparent to me last week while Dawn and I were rambling around Ireland for a week. Those that shared a bit of their time, shared a bit of themselves, took it upon themselves to play their part…they made our trip.
Thinking back to the various characters that played their part, that made our trip, makes my heart swell and my eyes well a bit. It also makes me realize that maybe I could do a better job of playing my part here in Rapid City. A better job of openly welcoming and being curious about the lives of those that, of all the places in the world, have chosen to visit the place I get to call home. Once tourist season rolls around, we’ll see if I have that part in me?
It had been 17-years since Dawn and I first visited Ireland, and although I have been fortunate enough to make several visits since then, this was Dawn’s first time back. Of all the places in the world, why Ireland again? If you really want to experience the music you have to go where it began, you have to go where the tunes are played and the songs are sung. Played and sang by those who have never known life without that music in it. That’s one reason, and for me, reason enough.
There’s always a risk going back to a place you have been before. A risk that whatever it was you found there is gone, or that it’s still there, but you are different. Maybe not better, maybe not worse…just different. So it goes. On this trip, when I found myself wishing things to be this way or that, I tried to just be. Not back, not forward, but right where I was, because I will never get to be right there, right then again.
When invited to play a part, play it. It will make all the difference for you and for everyone else sharing that particular scene, that particular time, that particular place. Because, “Quoth the Raven “Nevermore.” Nevermore is much more likely than evermore. While Dawn and I stood atop Mt. Brandon, chilled to the bone, engulfed by a thick shroud of mist and pummeled by a relentless Atlantic gale, a raven reminded me, “Nevermore”, and I couldn’t help but smile and sing.
That’s what you do in Ireland. You smile and you sing.
As we departed Dublin airport, as we climbed and banked towards the west, I watched as the many shades of green passed below. Johnny Cash found inspiration for his song Forty Shades of Green from this same vantage point.
“Again I want to see and do. The things we’ve done and seen. Where the breeze is sweet as Shalimar. And there’s forty shades of green.”
Ireland is a beautiful site from above, but you got to get your feet wet and lean into the wind to really see it, to hear it, and to feel it.
Happy St. Patrick’s Day my friends.